I have been reading (when time allows) Cheryl Swope's book Simply Classical. Her philosophy and journey through education mirrors my own with 1 or 2 major exceptions, but still we come to the same conclusions about how a child or children can be educated. Our main differences are in her profession as what seems to be an process coordinator for special education, and the adoption of her two children with significantly unique needs. We both were able to see (though not at the time of our initial training) some alarming trends in education after we began teaching. Perhaps I will discuss it later, but today I want to keep it short.
She does an excellent job explaining what the differences are between classical Christian education and the [wishing for the "find" option in the paperback book while I look for her exact words, and not finding them I'll paraphrase] practical education that we see in the public schools. My understanding is that the classical Christian education focuses on the whole child, not just academics, but character and a Christ centered life as well. These things are important to us. A few of our friends and family may be concerned that we shelter our children completely, or just a little too much, but one point Cheryl made helps me understand my own beliefs better. She says [paraphrasing here too] the goal is not to shelter them forever, just to help them [get ready for it] inculcate these skills and ways of being before they are put into situations where those things will not have opportunities to grow and be fostered. Go ahead and look up inculcate. I had to. But I actually remembered it for this post.
Her book primarily discusses specifics regarding the classical education of children with special needs in an attempt to encourage these families. But the families who are blessed with this "burden" are not alone in their need for encouragement. It is at the end of chapter 7 where I found this prayer. It can be said by anyone,
even a mom exhausted by a child who won't sleep, it is mentioned here for the parents or teachers of children with special needs or who have suffered loss. From Starck's Prayer Book originally, and quoted by Swope on p.175 (see this page in her book for specific and correct citation):
"But if it should please You to make my children a cross to me, either by their sickness, or death, or any other calamity that I might have to see them suffer, grant me patience in such affliction, and remind me that nothing happens without Your divine direction, that my children were Yours before they were mine, and that You have sovereign power to take them again to Yourself.
But if it is Your design by the suffering, misfortune, and death of my children to draw me to You, in order that I may recognize also in them that Your visible gifts are perishable, to stir me up to love You alone, the true and perfect God, keep me while traveling this thorny path in firm confidence and hope in Your almighty power, which can end and mend all things, even the crosses of my children. ..."
What a blessing a classical Christian education will be. What a challenge, and what a blessing indeed!
God bless.